I met him last night, the Mayor of Dreams. Well, the one in my own head, anyway.
In the last couple of weeks, I’ve had one or two brief moments of lucidity during a dream, not counting last night. Last night wasn’t a moment, it was a quest.
I was standing on a sidewalk in some kind of suburban shopping area–lots of banks, laundromats, and hole-in-the-wall diners. I can’t remember if it started raining before or after I became aware that I was dreaming. Pretty sure it was before, because I remember looking around and realising that the rain seemed to only be hitting one side of my face no matter where I was looking. It seemed like a “glitch” or something at the time.
The moment of becoming lucid was familiar now; it’s a feeling of rapid realisation, like when you suddenly remember that you had an appointment an hour ago. It’s not prompted by anything conscious, it’s just an understanding that comes over you quickly.
I don’t remember who I was with or what I was doing, but it didn’t matter anymore. I quickly remembered my goal (I was reciting it to myself as I fell asleep last night): I want to find the Mayor of Dreams.
I briefly looked around, trying to think of who nearby would be likely to know where to find him or her. None of the businesses nearby looked promising. Then I saw a bus that had stopped to pick up some passengers. It occurred to me, for some reason, that the bus could take me to the “real” Mayor, the Mayor of the city I was in. And if anyone would know where to find the Mayor of Dreams, it would be him.
I ran over to the bus and tried to get on, but the bus driver started closing the doors on me. She didn’t even know I was there. I shouted several times until she finally looked over and realized I was stuck in the door, and then she opened it and let me on.
“Can you take me to the Mayor?” I asked her. She nodded, and we continued on. I took a place standing just behind her, watching through the front windshield. I remember the trip seemed like it was taking forever, and I felt I didn’t have much time. I could feel lucidity waning a bit. I looked at my hands to try to recharge, and I poked them a few times.
Supposedly in a dream if you poke your palm with a finger, your finger will go right through it. That didn’t happen to me. My hands felt solid and real, but slightly numb and tingly like they were asleep. (My face, I later noticed, also felt numb on one side. I have no doubt I was feeling what my real extremities felt like as my body lay asleep in bed.)
I tried to encourage the bus driver to hurry up, but she couldn’t. So I decided to fly.
Well, easier said than done.
Dr. Stephen LeBerge devotes an entire section of his book, Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming, to different ways to fly in dreams. When I read it, I thought it seemed a bit excessive. How hard can it be? I thought. Turns out, really hard.
Getting airborne wasn’t a problem, I just shot out the front of the bus like Superman…but making any progress turned out to be difficult. I could see where I wanted to go, but I couldn’t seem to make the world around me move. The view stayed the same, moving slightly and resetting. It’s hard to describe. Suffice it to say, I wasn’t getting anywhere.
(I realized upon waking that what I had failed to do was expect to be making progress. Dream logic works on expectations. I was trying to fly, instead of actually flying. Yoda would be disappointed in me.)
I actually don’t remember how, but eventually I made it downtown and found myself outside the Mayor’s office building. I was told the Mayor wasn’t in, so I waited outside. (Outside the building, not just outside his office.) Finally a car pulled up and about four people got out. I only remember two of them: a very tall man with thick features, and a short, kind of frail older man. (Think George Carlin in his later years.) The old man was the Mayor.
I followed them into the building, and onto an elevator. The old man ignored me–actually, everyone did–although I knew he knew I was there to talk to him. (At some point he was talking to the others about his experience working as an extra on the set of Ben-Hur.) Finally we got to his office and I asked if I could just have a moment of his time. He begrudgingly complied, and I asked him if I could meet the Mayor of Dreams.
At this point, my memory of events is a bit hazy. Sorry.
I don’t remember how, but we ended up in, like, an underground room. Maybe we were taken there to discuss this matter, which was clearly a very sensitive subject. After all, I had just revealed to my subconscious that I was aware that I this was all just a dream. I’m sure I got ushered away into a secret meeting space.
What I do remember was that it was the Mayor, the tall, thick-featured man (who appeared to be some kind of bodyguard), and me. The tall man grilled me with a few questions, the content of which I don’t honestly remember. But when I answered satisfactorily, he said, “One moment.”
Then, to my surprise (but not really, because on some level I was expecting this to happen, because dreams), the tall man sent the Mayor away so it was just the two of us left. Now he was even taller–maybe nine or ten feet tall–and he had to stay seated in the room in order to fit.
“It’s me,” he said. “I’m the Mayor of Dreams. My name is Shiba.”
I repeated the name back to him, because I wasn’t sure if he said “Shiba” or “Shiva.” To be honest, I still don’t know which one it was. He seemed very friendly and amenable to meeting with me.
Shortly after that we weren’t in the underground room anymore, we were out in the city again. I explained to him as best I could what I was hoping for.
“Persistence,” I said. “I want a persistent world, so when I leave the dream I can come back and it will be the same.”
I pointed to an apartment building next to us. “If I decide that I want to live in a…Japanese house” (he said the word for it, which I don’t remember and I’m pretty sure was probably just gibberish) “and I make one, then when I come back I want it to still be here.”
Shiba/Shiva seemed to think this was acceptable, although he indicated that he could only promise to do so much. I understood that it could be a difficult job. Overall, he was a really friendly guy!
At one point, I asked him how he would know when I wasn’t in the dream anymore. He said that it wouldn’t be hard. “Once you’re not in here pushing around hydrogen atoms anymore, we’ll know.” I’m pretty sure he said “hydrogen.” It was kind of a joke, but also not. The implication was that my presence could be felt by everyone throughout the dream world, and when I wasn’t there it was still and calm and static.
Shortly after that, I woke up quite suddenly when my alarm went off. Hopefully Shiba/Shiva is still there waiting for me to return tonight.
Notes:
- I am overjoyed with this new development. Even if I never see him again, it was cool to meet that character, and even cooler to spend such an extended time in a state of lucidity. However, I can’t help but still be somewhat skeptical of my experience. After all, how can I tell the difference between being aware that I am dreaming, and dreaming about being aware that I’m dreaming? Is there a difference? Perhaps not; if in both cases I am aware of being in a dream, and I’m seemingly able to control where I go and what I do, then I guess that’s what matters. Still, the fact that the lucid feeling was somewhat dulled from the usual vibrant experience suggests that maybe it was a “lesser” form of lucid dreaming.
- Behold the amazing power of the mind: After writing this post, I decided to look up the word Shiva, because I was pretty sure it was an actual diety of some sort. Well, my mind apparently knew more than I realized, because it turns out that in Hinduism, Shiva is the supreme being who creates, protects, and transforms the universe. (Wikipedia) Sounds about right. I’m glad he didn’t get offended that I kept calling him “The Mayor of Dreams.”